An Introverts Guide to Moving - Introvert Whisperer

Introvert Whisperer / An Introverts Guide to Moving - Introvert Whisperer An Introverts Guide to Moving Kayla Matthews May 17, 2019 Adaptability No responses Go to top Moving is stressful, no matter who you are. But as an introvert, moving comes with everything you detest, from talking to potential landlords to trying to make new friends. Unfortunately, moving is a necessary evil in life. According to one study, the average person moves more than 11 times in their lifetime. If youre facing a big move â€" like heading away to college, searching for a new apartment or even moving back home â€" the anxiety and apprehension may already be creeping in. Perhaps youre worried about getting lost in a strange city. Maybe youre concerned about meeting new people. Or perhaps youre just bummed about having to find a new pizza joint. No matter your anxieties, worrying is a normal part of any move. While theres a lot thats out of your control, theres still plenty you can do to put yourself more at ease in a new environment. How to Survive Your Next Move If your next move is on the horizon, start planning now to make the experience as easy as possible. The eight tips below are designed to help introverts like you adapt and feel more comfortable. Take Time Off A move is going to take valuable man hours, so dont stress yourself further by trying to balance work and relocating. Take a few days off to focus on packing boxes and getting prepared. Keep your boxes organized and labeled, using a permanent marker to indicate which contain kitchen items versus bedroom items. By planning ahead and scheduling time off, you can avoid the stress of asking around for last-minute help. Start to Unpack Get started unpacking as soon as you move, decorating your space to make it your own. Hang up any artwork you brought over, set up your knick-knacks and display your favorite photographs. Or, you can even get adventurous and use wall decorations and hanging shelves for belongings like books and collectibles. By unpacking, you can start to feel at home right away. Seek Other Introverts Whether youre moving to a college dorm or shared apartment, you can take steps to ensure your new living space is comfortable. When meeting with potential roommates, ask them if theyre an introvert or extrovert. By finding someone who has  introverted traits and qualities  similar to you, youre more likely to have a space where you can each enjoy privacy and feel relaxed. As a bonus, you may even find your introverted qualities bring you together to foster a new friendship. Keep it Short If you want to introduce yourself to new neighbors â€" or you find yourself ambushed in the hallway â€" give yourself a much-needed reprieve by keeping the interaction short. Have a deadline of five or ten minutes, after which you can gracefully bow out and head back to your sanctuary. This deadline allows you to socialize and meet new people without getting overwhelmed. Each interaction after that, no matter how short, will get easier. Invest in Headphones As an introvert, you might dread that tap on the shoulder or other indication that someone is looking to chat. Youd rather keep your head down and stay to yourself. But it can be hard to tell others you dont feel like talking without looking rude. One easy fix â€" wear a pair of headphones. Whether you want to listen to music or enjoy a silent walk, wearing a pair of headphones is an easy deterrent to any Chatty Kathy that might get in your way. Use a Buffer As an introvert, one of the best ways to feel more at ease when meeting new people is to find a buffer. A buffer is something besides conversation which keeps the group occupied, like ice cream at a colleges dorm social party. Other great buffers include board games, video games, movies and sports. While you might still feel anxious, a buffer can help take the edge off and give you something to talk about. Join a Class You dont have to find a wild group of friends to hang around, but even an introvert needs a pal or two. By taking a class or joining a group, you can meet people who have similar interests, giving you common ground to form a bond. If you stick around long enough, youre bound to make a friend. Check out the local community center for activities such as art lessons, exercise classes and more. Or search on websites like Meetup for a local interest group you can join, like a photography club or dog walking group. Find the Library If youre moving back home or share an apartment with a roommate, you may have to find another space to recharge. As a place where silence is expected, the library has been a long-time sanctuary to introverts everywhere. Most are free to join and offer access to books, movies, games, computers and much more. Take your notes and study for an upcoming exam or grab a book and disappear into a new world. How to Make Your Move Easier Even in a big and bustling city, theres plenty you can to ease the transition of moving and find a place thats your own. While you can use headphones to avoid conversations and keep interactions with neighbors to a minimum, what an introvert ultimately needs is a chance to be alone and recharge. Once you have a space you can call your own, you can take the steps to slowly meet new people and start to feel at home in your new location. Go to top Do you know what your next career step is?  Many people don’t. I want to help you accelerate your career by connecting you with your Free Instant Access to my eBook on how to construct your Career SMART Goals â€" that will help you put together your actions and keep you accountable. Get your copy now and start your action plan today! 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